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A blog about civil discourse
This is perhaps the best book I've ever read on why aesthetic experiences matter. I've already quoted from it twice on this blog, and I'll do it again:"A work of art [music, literature, painting, etc.] elicits and accentuates this quality of being a whole and of belonging to the larger, all-inclusive, whole which is the universe in which we live. This fact, I think, is the explanation of that feeling of exquisite intelligibility and clarity we have in the presence of an object that is experienced with esthetic intensity. It explains also the religious feeling that accompanies intense esthetic perception. We are, as it were, introduced into a world beyond this world which is nevertheless the deeper reality of the world in which we live in our ordinary experiences. We are carried out beyond ourselves to find ourselves."I think this should be the goal of every artist: to create art that will lead audiences to have experiences like this. To inhabit momentarily the right hemisphere of the brain.
This year I've noted how much more the Olympics inspire awe than regular sporting events.
The authors argue that during intense arguments we're generally tempted in one of two ways: toward violence (controlling, labeling, attacking) or silence (withdrawing, avoiding, masking).

"Next time you'll notice them on your way to workThe rest of the poem is filled with conscientious descriptions of the homeless. It's not an argument—the author doesn't rebuke the reader for not giving money to the poor, nor does he assert that we should vote for a policy that will give the homeless some housing. He merely translates what he's seen with words the way a painter would illustrate the scene with paint.
or when you drive by that place near the river
where the stockyards used to stand, where everything
is gone now. They'll be leaning over the edge
of the barrel, getting it started. . ."

"Once there were brook trout in the streams in the mountains. You could see them standing in the amber current where the white edges of their fins wimpled softly in the flow. They smelled of moss in your hand. Polished and muscular and torsional. On their backs were vermiculate patterns that were maps of the world in its becoming. Maps and mazes. Of a thing which could not be put back. Not be made right again. In the deep glens where they lived all things were older than man and they hummed of mystery." - The Road, last paragraphNo novel has haunted me for good and bad the way Cormac McCarthy's The Road has. I can't forget it, though at times I think I should in order to shake my fear that our world will darken to the one McCarthy imagines—a gray post-apocalyptic world of cutthroats.
“In the several years since I first became interested in Rogerian argument it has had a growing influence on me. Not only do I teach it to help my students become better rhetoricians, but I have found that increasingly I am using Rogerian strategies myself when I really care about communicating with people. I have learned how to phrase questions neutrally in order to elicit genuine answers, and I have trained myself to become a better listener by adopting Rogers’ advice to withhold my response until people have had a chance to express their views.”I've seen this too. I've created enemies before, by layering internal gossip about people I thought were detestable but hadn't really yet spoken to directly. Then when I finally confronted them, even if we argued and remained at odds with each other about a given topic ("enemies?") I found that I liked them more than I had prior to communicating. I could see, at least a grandeur I hadn't previously considered.

enacting the Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act would result in a net reduction in federal budget deficits of $130 billion over the 2010–2019 period . . . In the subsequent decade, the collective effect of its provisions would probably be small reductions in federal budget deficits if all of the provisions continued to be fully implemented. Those estimates are subject to substantial uncertainty. (italics mine)
"we [Americans] all believe, passionately, in the right of every person to assert and defend his values; about such matters as freedom and equality and justice. We are indeed moral absolutists, even those of us who will in the same breath chant, 'There are no absolutes.' The whole country cries 'Freedom now!'—meaning my freedom now." (132)In other words, modern dogma, or our attempt to stick it to The Man, has often led us from communal to self-centered thinking. (It's the story of James Joyce's Portrait of the Artist as Young Man.)


A suffering with another; painful sympathy; a sensation of sorrow excited by the distress or misfortunes of another; pity; commiseration. Compassion is a mixed passion, compounded of love and sorrow.Perhaps Christ didn't show compassion for the Pharisees (Matthew 23) because they had no evident sorrow. They had exalted themselves to the point where they felt the sorrow of no one, and without sorrow, compassion is impossible.
The Charter will proclaim a principle embraced by every faith, and by every moral code. It is often referred to as The Golden Rule.It's a needed reminder, don't you think?
The Golden Rule requires that we use empathy—moral imagination—to put ourselves in others' shoes. We should act toward them as we would want them to act toward us. We should refuse, under any circumstance, to carry out actions which would cause them harm.